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Thursday 30July98
1:55 pm
I have not written for many days. He and I woke up early last
Friday and drove 283 miles to the
Sierra Nevadas. We spent the night at a campsite and set out
early Saturday morning on a 7.5 mile backpacking adventure. Snow
was still on the ground but the weather was warm (and the mosquitos were
swarming). It was a hard pack, but we made it to Lake Lillian and
enjoyed our Sunday taking day hikes to various nearby lakes. The
waterfalls were in full force and I have excellent photos which will be
added shortly. On Monday we packed out -- six miles -- by a
different route. Since I have been back I have been working
furiously to finish everything up before I go away. I am leaving on
the third (Monday) for LA and will be on the east coast from the seventh
to the nineteenth. I will be back in Berkeley on the twentieth.
I will be college shopping with my brother. I am looking
forward to the change of scenery.
It really was a wonderful trip. I didn't bring a scrap of paper
besides our maps so I would have no ooprtunity to write. I did a
lot of thinking about why people do such outdoors recreational activity
and thought myself most fortunate to be able to go on such a trip.
I really treasured those precious few days alone with Him in the
wilderness.
I have uploaded all of my current work and am spending my shift working
on my succulent pages.
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Wednesday 22July98
11:32 am
I feel silly for not having reported the interesting events in my life of
late. I am at work now, but the network went down so only about
eight computers are working. Needless to say, I am not very busy.
Day before last, a client came in, whom I and a co-worker had
previously had an altercation with. He apologized to me; I was
impressed. Yesterday I worked on my succulent
list.
2:17 pm
I just found out I won a T-shirt in a contest* sponsored
by AltaVista. Very
exciting. Hee hee. I did it while I was at work yesterday.
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Tuesday 21July98
12:00 pm
He asked to paint my toenails, and since I let him pick the color they are
now blue.
2:52 pm
I have been having a few conversations via e-mail while on shift.
Feel better Basil! My belly is growling and I am glad to be leaving
soon.
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Monday 20July98
5:08 pm
I suppose I should rename this the not-so-daily diary. I did not
feel like writing this weekend. I didn't even feel like working,
but I managed, and uploaded most everything today.
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Friday 17July98
1:17 pm
I registered for the rest of my classes today. I will be taking Introduction to Development Studies, Intermediate Dance, Dance Analysis, History of Film Theory, and Special Topics in Film: Cinema and Artificial Life. Yesterday
I saw Small
Soldiers and then watched Starship
Troopers on DVD; the day before I saw A Perfect Murder which is a
remake of Alfred
Hitchcock's Dial
M for Murder. Most disturbing of the movies was a
continuity flaw in Starship
Troopers. One of the main characters was missing an arm
from above the elbow. When he later returned on screen with a
prosthetic hand, his arm extended well below the elbow before disappearing
into the metal glove. So sloppy!
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Thursday 16July98
2:22 pm
Working will be over soon and then I am going to see a matinee. I
have spent my free time at work adding links to yesterday's entry.
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Wednesday 15July98
11:21 am
An inventory of the plants in my
apartment (not counting the succulents, which
reside on His porch), reveals:
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Tuesday 14July98
3:43 pm
The weather is hot and I am working long hours.
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Monday 13July98
5:34 pm
I have been farting around all
morning at His place. We played with a nice metalic effect in Photoshop
and I watered all of my planties. Unfortunately, my photos did not
turn out so well, so I have nothing to scan to show all of the new growth.
I have been having delightful e-mail conversations with Aurora while she is hard at work in India.
It is slightly disconcerting to hear about her Monday morning while
it is still Sunday evening here, but I am getting used to it.
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Sunday 12July98
9:48 pm
I haven't wanted to write for the past few days. That doesn't mean
I haven't composed entries in my head, I simply haven't felt in a writing
mood when I have found myself in front of a computer. On Wednesday
I went for a drive with him up the coast
nearly all the way to Mendecino. We took off right after our staff
meeting and the whole experience was wonderful. After we stopped
and had a lovely meal (we got two vegan
dishes and split them; no man has ever done that with me before) I was
very sleepy. As I cuddled in a blanket of contentment the sky gave
a huge full moon just above the horizon. I watched it the whole way
back to Berkeley until the fog fully obscured
it from view.
[A large bug with long legs just flew at the computer screen and flew
away two legs lighter. The legs clung to the computer screen until
I blew hard enough to dislodge them. That was one of the more
disturbing things I have seen in my day.]
This week has been all about work, except when I called in sick on
Thursday due to a belly ache. Yesterday (Saturday) He and I
wandered about Berkeley looking at new shops and neighborhoods.
Today I was up at seven working and then had brunch with Karlyn.
The day was perfect for eating out of doors. He was still in bed
when I left and I was a bit concerned. I worry when he sleeps for
so many hours, mostly because I know that sleeping a lot is a sign of
depression. When we finally got to his place I spent the rest of
the day gardening on his porch. I got one of his housemates a plant
for his birthday. I could spend all day tending to my little green
friends. We also pitched His tent on the porch so we could fix one
of the fiberglass poles; we are planning on going backpacking in the next
two weeks, but lord only knows if we will make it. I actually enjoy
planning things as much as, if not more than, doing them. Planning
a trip to the beach is often more enjoyable than the sandy, scortching
reality. Not that I don't like doing things. I love camping
and hiking and taking long, meandering walks. But I love planning
too. There is such an excitment about it. I remember
continually discussing a trip to Tahiti with my
exboyfriend Sam. We were going to go when I was 22. He
still refered to it after we broke up. Such silliness. I
guess he had the planning bug too.
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Tuesday 7July98
12:52 pm
I am smack dab in the middle of a lengthy shift. I haven't even
read my e-mail yet. We are going to the Botanical Gardens when I
get done with work and then we are hoping to see Armageddon. Last night
we rented The MatchMaker
and the night before we got The Apartment,
which won Best
Picture in 1960.
1:37 pm
I have started the perpetual yawning. It must be because I haven't
had any lunch. I was just discussing movies with my co-worker. Film is a universal language.
2:44 pm
My honey has come to work to walk me home. His SCSI card arrived in
the mail yesterday and he spent the morning formatting RAID arrays.
I am so glad to see him.
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Monday 6July98
5:19 pm
I tried in vain to get online yesterday, but the dial-up was not working
and I had to default to gardening. I could live and do nothing
else. Today I got a solid chunk of
work done, did a bit of my plant thing, and found
a nifty page of fonts*, and
a decent collection
of images*. I am hoping to wander around
the botanical gardens tomorrow.
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Saturday 4July98
The Fourth of July
3:04 pm
I am very content with this lazy day of gardening and loafing in the sun.
We certainly got a gorgeous fourth. I have been cataloging
the aditional two dozen plants I picked up yesterday when we hit two
nurseries and a pot shop. There were a lot of great finds at
Yabusaki's (1001 Dwight, just West of San Pablo) and East Bay Nursery
(2332 San Pablo Avenue, only a few blocks North of Yabusaki's). I
have addicted him to Bosais, and we have a healthy five basking in the sun
right now. I love the idea of getting him involved in gardening the
way I am and I am delighted that his interests are different from mine --
we are both constantly teaching each other.
With a lot of purchasing and a little propogating, my succulent collection has jumped from 19 to 42.
Fourteen of them are of the Lithops species.
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Friday 3July98
8:48 am
My third night of dreaming of babies in
four days. Four nights ago I rescued a baby from some neglectful,
wealthy, and powerful father. I had been in a car accident and was
trying to deal with getting drug tests to prove that I hadn't been
drinking while trying to keep this baby safe and warm. In the end I
knew that I could count on my mother to raise the child and I was trying
to figure out how I would get it papers so it could go to school.
The next night (three ago), I dreamt that
my father had left dozens of babies in the yard of the tall apartment
building in which I lived. I spent the day wandering around
discovering new groups of babies, all of whom I was trying to keep warm.
Throughout the day people would wander into the yard, let me know
that they knew what was going on (apparently more than I did) and start
holding the babies to keep them warm. I was waiting for my father's
return the entire time, and I woke up with Madonna's Pappa Don't
Preach in my head, as I had listeded to it the evening before.
Two nights ago I dreamt I was asked to
write a screenplay. When I awoke in my dream, I was delighted to
find that I really was writing a screenplay; I was to rewrite an existing
screenplay, which they had already started shooting, as the existing
writer was nowhere to be found; her name was that of one of my father's
female friends. I began working on it and then wound up at a party
where everyone was touting my virtues as a writer. Last night I was
some sort of agent, working on some top secret, life threatening plot.
The adventure was long, but when I was finally unmasked as dawn was
breaking, I grabbed a baby (I believe it was the baby of the man I had
just gotten killed) just as the mans widow stormed into the room with the
gun. She was carrying a baby of her own, and was prepared, in her
anger, to shoot through mine to get to me, but as soon as she saw her dead
husband she tended to him. She, along with the two female
companions who accompanied her (all were dressed in black), began a
mourning process which was elaborate and ritualistic. Let me just
say that flame throwers were involved and that there was some sort of
document -- a tribute --- being produced which you could only add to
through by pshycic connection. I was remourseful, and added saviour
to his title, for he had died saving me.
If I didn't have my period, I would be concerned about all of these
baby dreams. When I was home, my
dad asked me if I thought that I was capable of being a mother now.
He laughed when I answered yes and simply said that it would require a lot
of patience.
9:20am
I am reading my second succulent book (I finished one last night) after a
brief stint of watering.
Gardeners unexpectedly fall in love with cacti and succulents, and why
not? Tiny Plants explode with brillian flowers .... The cool-toned leaves
of succulents are formed like minimalist sculptures, each plant displaying
intriguing shapes and blossoms.
Mimi Luebbermann
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Thursday 2July98
3:01 pm
We are trying, without much luck, to make plans for this three day
weekend. I spent the entire three hour shift working on my succulent pages. My mom has agreed to go the
the succulent convention in
Las Vegas with me. I am going to go to the postoffice and pick
up the apricots she mailed me. I also want to drop by the bookstore
and get a few books on succulents and visit the last two nurseries in
Berkeley I have not hit yet. For being difficult to navigate and
full of tons of useless information, I love the web. I am so
impressed to have so much information at my fingertips. I love
doing research.
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Wednesday 1July98
9:33 am
I am absolutely amazed to discover the computer community preparing for the
comming usage of the European Community currency symbol.
Someone must get paid just to think ahead for such situations as this.
I woke up early -- clammy with a sickness that I am using the web
to distract me from. It is either surf or do work. He is
sleeping away the hours only a few feet from me. I don't want to be
sick -- especially not during the summer.
I really feel that my hard work paid off. My boss e-mailed me
yesterday saying that my newest client loved the work I did. A
compliment like that makes up for so much more than it should. I
can put up with a lot if I am told in the end that it was a job well done.
In fact, a few days ago my boss told me that his boss really liked
the new CAP site I have been working on. I guess I
am sitting pretty.
12:31 pm
Sweet Jane came and chatted with me before
getting started on her programming homework. I sure am glad I'm not
doing summer school.
12:59 pm
The first hour of my shift has passed quickly. I have discovered The Cactus and Succulent Plant Mall
and have typed up a list of my 19 succulents.
1:17 pm
I Just uncovered a succulent convention in Las Vegas. Now I have to
convince my mom to go with me. I am going to e-mail her right now.

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